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Boo, How Do I Get Home?

A Daughter's Guide to Caregiving, Letting Go, and Building the System That Held Her Up

by Anita Charlot

Anita Charlot and her mother, cheek to cheek and smiling
Me and my mom

"Boo... how do I get home?"

Those were the words my mother said to me from the side of the road, in a snowstorm, long before either of us knew what they really meant.

Anita Charlot built her career solving problems other people had given up on — fourteen years in the Army Reserves, a business built from nothing while working full-time, a reputation as the one who always finds a way. So when her mother's decline started taking pieces of her, Anita did what she always does. She built a system.

A snowstorm. A stranger at the side of the road. Nine phone calls a day. A neuropsychologist's diagnosis that wasn't about her mother at all — it was about her. This is the story of what it actually takes to hold a family together while a parent is disappearing, one board, one hard conversation, one 11pm question typed into an AI chat window at a time.

Part memoir, part practical guide — for anyone caring for a parent through decline, and anyone still learning the hardest lesson a lifelong fixer ever has to learn.

"You are not failing because you can't fix this. And you don't have to carry it by yourself."

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Anita Charlot is the Founder & CEO of Relationship Architect Academy, an AI Adoption Strategist, and creator of the R.A.I. Framework™. A U.S. Army Reserves veteran and author of Your First 30 Days with an AI Teammate, she has spent her career helping leaders bring AI into their organizations without losing what makes them human. This is the story she didn't tell on stage — the one that came first.

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